"Last week, I had a session with Vanessa. Even though I've tried tantra a few times, my anxiety around intimacy is profound. At 28, I have little experience. Desperately trying to get over these issues, I reached out to Vanessa. She is real, and answered my questions and curiosities. We started talking and then slowly began. My anxieties around intimacy has definitely decreased. Go in with no expectations and you will find some inner peace. Vanessa is also funny, which helps."
We all need to start somewhere. And sometimes, we need to restart or start again. Sexuality isn't all about intimacy, and intimacy isn't all about sexuality but these qualities of human connection intersect. Often, we all experience anxiety in these places. Maybe we are "late bloomers" or we've taken a lot of time to ourselves in isolation, or become estranged from our own partners...
An amazing part about my work, and that of other sex-professionals is that I can be a safe space to experience sexuality and intimacy. It's literally my job to facilitate that space! We can come together, and truly open ourselves without the stressful context that dating and sex often hold. There are no ties that bind us to our egos as with other spaces. This opens and opportunity to free our souls, even for a moment... We can be an avatar, a child, a sex witch and leave everything else behind. At that moment, when the soul shines- we are reminded of this sparkle in ourselves, and can leave knowing and remembering that it exists.
Last week I was a part of a birthday celebration for two lovely people. I don't often work with couples, but this reminded me just how much fun it can be! I think working all together takes SO much skillful communication, to keep everyone feeling sexy, grounded and explorative. My goal is to awaken and arouse our sacred triangulation; and then gracefully exit- leaving the lovers just stewing in the chemistry created.
Last week I learned a lot and felt reinvigorated with my own knowledge and practice, and inspired to share.
Here is the review which I just posted in my testimonials...
"Spent an amazing evening with my girlfriend and Vanessa as a birthday present to myself. Vanessa is truly a beautiful human being. She is sensual, smart, gorgeous, thoughtful, caring and beyond sexy. She is a master of the sensual arts and moves her body like a goddess... You should find a way to make this happen for yourself."
Athens, Greece 2017
I spent a lot of time in the sun this weekend.
The winter seemed so long, and now I'm not so used to the heat.
I need to let my skin and body slowly become imbued
with the sun rays,
bringing out the golden glow in my skin.
Santorini, Greece - June 2017
The New York summer is slowly making its debut. The weather still has been shifty, but we are blessed with more and more warm sunny days. I stroll through the park without my phone or wallet, so I may enjoy being in my body. With sun on my legs- I admire the nature, the sounds of the water and the birds.
Last year I traveled to Greece for the first time and got to really enjoy and explore Santorini. With a dear friend at my side, we made our way through the crazy heat, and discovered the gifts of the island.
I'm missing the beauty, the water, and the relaxation. And I am reminding myself to keep working hard for journeys to come, and hold the memories in my heart.
NYC based practitioner of sacred sexuality, cosmic sensual attuning, mind/time travel, and divine sensual arts.